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We’ve all heard that relationships take effort. But when “effort” isn’t defined, it gets blurred — and sometimes used as guilt. Here’s the truth about effort, respect, and boundaries.

Even love needs limits. You can understand someone's capacity — and still feel unsupported. Boundaries aren't punishment, they're protection for your core standards.

Some people trust the universe will bend for them — but sometimes, you’re the one doing the bending. Here’s why soft demands cost you more than you think — and how to stop twisting yourself to make others comfortable.